Frequently Asked Questions About Surrogacy: Comparisons & Decision-Making
Welcome to Asian Surrogacy's guide to helping you navigate one of life's most important decisions. Whether you're an intended parent, prospective surrogate, or egg donor, here are the key questions and answers to help you move forward with confidence.
For Intended Parents: Understanding Your Options
Q: What is surrogacy, and why should I consider it?
A: Surrogacy is a process where a woman carries a baby for a couple who are unable to conceive or carry a child themselves. It's a profound gift—one that should never be forgotten. Many couples choose surrogacy due to medical infertility, repeated pregnancy loss, genetic disorders, or same-sex partnerships. The journey typically takes 12–18 months from initial consultation to bringing your baby home.
Q: What are the types of surrogacy?
A:
- Gestational surrogacy (most common): The surrogate carries an embryo created from the intended parents' egg and sperm (or donors). The surrogate has no genetic link to the child.
- Traditional surrogacy (less common in India): The surrogate is genetically related to the child. This is rarely offered due to legal and emotional complexities.
Q: Can we use donor egg or sperm?
A: Yes. Recent Union Health Ministry amendments now allow married couples to use a donor egg or sperm if one partner has a medical condition preventing them from providing their own gametes. This opens doors for many couples previously unable to pursue surrogacy in India.
Q: How much does surrogacy cost?
A: Costs vary but typically include:
- Surrogate compensation and care
- IVF/embryo creation
- Medical tests, ultrasounds, and monitoring
- Legal and documentation fees
- Travel and accommodation (if you're from abroad)
At Asian Surrogacy, we provide transparent pricing and tailor programs to your budget.
Q: How long does the process take?
A: From initial consultation to bringing your baby home typically takes 12–18 months, depending on:
- Time to find a matched surrogate
- Embryo creation and transfer cycles
- Pregnancy duration
- Legal clearances and documentation
Q: What legal protections do we have?
A: Indian surrogacy law requires:
- A valid marriage certificate (for married couples)
- Medical fitness certificates
- Counseling by a licensed social worker
- A legal agreement signed by all parties
- A court order granting parentage before birth
Asian Surrogacy ensures full legal compliance and protection for intended parents.
Q: Can we choose our surrogate?
A: Yes—and it's encouraged. At Asian Surrogacy, we believe in known surrogacy, where you meet and connect with your surrogate. This builds trust and allows you to:
- Understand her background and motivations
- Build a relationship throughout the pregnancy
- Feel involved in the journey
- Know your child's birth story
For Prospective Surrogates: Your Role & Support
Q: Why should I become a surrogate?
A: Many surrogates describe it as one of the most fulfilling experiences of their lives. You'll:
- Create a family for people who desperately want children
- Receive comprehensive medical and emotional support
- Earn a meaningful compensation
- Know you've made an extraordinary difference
Q: What support will I receive?
A: At Asian Surrogacy, we provide:
- Medical care: Fertility treatments, ultrasounds, regular monitoring, and delivery
- Social support: Licensed social workers guide you through every step
- Emotional support: Counseling before, during, and after pregnancy
- Financial support: Regular stipends and coverage of all medical expenses
- Post-delivery care: We remain by your side after the baby is born
Q: What are the eligibility requirements?
A: Generally, surrogates must be:
- Between 21 and 45 years old
- In good physical and mental health
- Have had at least one successful pregnancy
- Non-smoker and no substance abuse
- Willing to undergo medical screening and counseling
- Committed to the entire process
Q: Can I stay in contact with the family after delivery?
A: Yes—it's your choice. Many surrogates and intended parents maintain lifelong connections. Some families send photos and updates; others have regular visits. This is discussed and agreed upon before the process begins.
For Egg Donors: Give the Gift of Life
Q: What does being an egg donor involve?
A: You'll:
- Undergo hormone stimulation for 10–14 days
- Have regular ultrasounds and blood tests
- Undergo a minor surgical procedure (egg retrieval) under anesthesia
- Recover within 24–48 hours
The entire process takes 3–4 weeks
Q: Can I choose anonymity or meet the intended parents?
A: Both options are available. Asian Surrogacy strongly believes in known donation because:
- It provides transparency and trust
- It benefits the child (who may want to know their donor's background)
- It allows the intended parents to feel connected
However, anonymous donation is also offered if you prefer privacy.
Q: What compensation do egg donors receive?
A: Egg donors typically receive ₹50,000–₹100,000+ depending on:
- Experience and medical history
- Your location
- Specific family requests
- Agency policies
Key Comparisons: Surrogacy vs. Other Paths to Parenthood
Making Your Decision: Key Questions to Ask Yourself
- Do I want a genetic connection to my child? If yes, surrogacy or IVF may be best. If no, adoption is an option.
- Am I ready for a long, emotionally intense process? Surrogacy and adoption both require patience and emotional resilience.
- What is my budget? Costs vary widely; clarify all fees upfront.
- How do I feel about meeting/connecting with my surrogate or donor? Some prefer known relationships; others prefer anonymity.
- What does my family's story mean to me? This shapes which path feels right.
Why Choose Asian Surrogacy?
- 30+ years of experience in surrogacy and egg donation
- Experienced team: Dr. Milind Bhise and Dr. Neelam Bhise (both former surrogates themselves)
- Personalized support: From initial consultation to bringing your baby home
- Transparent pricing and clear communication
- Full legal compliance with Indian surrogacy laws
- Known surrogacy model that builds real connections
- Comprehensive care for surrogates, donors, and intended parents
Ready to Take the Next Step?
Contact Asian Surrogacy for a confidential consultation with Dr. Milind Bhise or Dr. Neelam Bhise.
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